All of us unconsciously ask one of two questions, when we seek out a potential partner. We either ask: what can I do for you? This is the co-dependent. Or what can the other person do for me? This is the dependent.
Do you think these questions are healthy?
We unconsciously set up a situation where we are not on the same team. This creates the actor of love.
Do you want to transform your question?
In order to transform, we need to be truly autonomous/independent. Then we can ask: What can we do for each other. Doesn't that question sound better? Now, we are interdependent and become true lovers!
Do you want to attract a true lover?
"Self-Knowledge is the Jewel."-Serena Jade
Bringing unconscious wisdom to the world...
www.serenajade.com
Do you think these questions are healthy?
We unconsciously set up a situation where we are not on the same team. This creates the actor of love.
Do you want to transform your question?
In order to transform, we need to be truly autonomous/independent. Then we can ask: What can we do for each other. Doesn't that question sound better? Now, we are interdependent and become true lovers!
Do you want to attract a true lover?
"Self-Knowledge is the Jewel."-Serena Jade
Bringing unconscious wisdom to the world...
www.serenajade.com
