The Soul Mate Prep Blog#98: Do you ponder the deep questions?

Artist Andy Lakey drew this angel for me, he sensed I had a big heart and lots of energy!


Do you think about why you are here on earth? Is it just to live, beget the next generation, have fun and die?

What happens when your body turns to stone and perishes?

Do you have faith? When most people say they have faith, it usually implies an outside force. I want you to think of an inside force...Do you have faith that an inside force survives death?

Can you live life by having faith in this inside force?

"True spirituality is knowing and trusting the intangible force within. A tremendous amount of faith in this inside force, will bring heaven to you in the here and now."-Serena Jade

Do you have complete trust in the intangible force within you?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#97: What is Self-Knowledge?

The other day, a friend of mine said, "It is easier to see other people's lives and not your own."

Ancient Greek Wisdom; Know Thyself!

Self-Knowledge is about being disciplined and reflective to understand and then transform one's psychological unhealthy identity. When one can acquire inner psychological wisdom, one can then start to understand one's spiritual nature. But, it takes discipline to want to be a better person and have healthy relationships, first to the self and then to others!

"To seek myself and know who I was and who in what manner I now am, that I may again become that which I was."- Gnostic-wisdom

Do you want to be a better person or do you think the other person has the problem?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#96: The writers of the TV show Blue Bloods are delusional...

In every episode of Blue Bloods, the family has a Sunday ritual meal together. I was watching a rerun the other day and one of the characters at the dinner table said, "People have two lives, one they are born into and the one they choose."

What were the writers thinking of when they wrote that line, I wonder?

Here we have a show about a follow along family of policemen. People choose a profession but to choose a life different from what one was born into is another story!

Think about your family's heritage: Do you adhere to your ancestor's place of origin?

Are you following your family's customs and beliefs?

Do you think you can separate from your family, when they put shame and guilt onto you, not to be separate from them?

If you answered "Yes" to the first two and "No" to the last question, you are living one life. Would you like to live two lives?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#95: Is your Heart truly open for Love?

The Heart's Awakening by William Bouguereau


"Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."-Rumi
 
FROM THE YEAR 2007-"The tendency to think about the other person’s feelings, more than mine is alive within me. That is the karma between us; I disregard myself but I am dependent on the relationship. He has control and sees me as an extension not as a separate person. He withdraws as the reaction, the more he withdraws I become frustrated and become the victim to my caretaker syndrome. My fear is abandonment but I abandon myself and I feel responsible for the other. The more I feel responsible, the more he withdraws and I feel abandoned even more.

Karma is a Sanskrit word meaning action = reaction. I am mimicking with James, my relationship with my mother.
I have been taught to disregard myself and think about my mother and her needs. But, underneath the façade, I am dependent on the relationship.
I have to become safe and secure and stop my people pleasing, not an easy task. 
Once I transform, I will no longer be its victim.
I 

will be responsible to me and to another, not for another.  

I will be autonomous and can be caring-detached and then I will move out of the karmic situation and move on to my deepest most-profound eternal love.

When this is going to happen? I do not know.

EXCERPT FROM

The Auto-Bond: A Personal Growth Relationship

Best-selling author John Bradshaw said, "Codependency/dependency is the root of addiction."

"When our heart is ready for love - we have transcended our

Co-Dependent and Dependent unhealthy defense mechanism."-

Serena Jade

Are you ready to open your heart?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#94: The Ten Commandments vs.Exodus:Gods and Kings...

 
 

First, I have to say Moses is a very important figure in my life. I converted to Judaism because I feel a deep connection with Moses. If you don't know, Moses is a very important and central figure in Judaism. The  Torah aka The Old Testament is the five books of Moses.

For me, The Ten Commandments is a classic. If you are aware, Cecil B. DeMille depicts Moses and his transformation into a leader.

Even though, I loved the special effects in Exodus and how Ridley Scott portrayed the plagues and the Red Sea, Exodus did not inspire me. The film didn't depict Moses's calling and I didn't like the God representation as a boy. In The Ten Commandments, God was a spirit within the hearts and minds of every being.

Moses is a hero figure, he represents someone who heeded the call and followed his destiny.

Do you hear the call to your destiny? If so, are you following the call?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#93: Are you treating your body like a temple?

Love Your Body

Your body should be treated like a temple. When your emotions are working on the same team as your mind, you will want to be a good parent for your body. 

Working out consistently and eating healthy are paramount to keeping your body in top form. When our emotions of guilt and shame control us, we are not the best advocate for our body. Get in touch with your guilt and shame to create a body that you will love.

Are you ready to love your body?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#92: Do you feel Significant?

The moment I took my first breath, my mother deemed worthy, I was insignificant. From that moment on, my ego would develop and I would reject my unacceptable trait; I am Significant.

When we reject our unacceptable traits, we project them. We see someone else with the traits we would like to acquire and this usually comes in the form of envy.

However, the only way we can acquire the unacceptable traits is by accepting them and then identify with the trait. This is not easy because our ego wants safety at all costs and to be identified with the trait that was unacceptable is very difficult. However, the task is not impossible but the trick is instead of being envious, be conscious of what we are projecting.

Are you projecting your Significance or owning it?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#90: Will you see a loved one after they die?

Three Soul Mates had a past life love of horses and fox hunting in Yorkshire, England, and Reincarnated in the south shore of Long Island, New York for their love of horses and racing ...

Horse racing arrived in North America from England in the year 1665. The south shore of Long Island, New York is the home of New Market racecourse. Two centuries later Jerome Park comes into being through the efforts of two visionaries, stock market investor Leonard Jerome and August Belmont Sr. Mr. Belmont is a politician, financial wizard, and racehorse owner/breeder.

The Belmont Stakes was named after Mr. Belmont and was inaugurated at Jerome Park in 1867, in which year it was won by Ruthless. In 1889 the race was moved to Morris Park, a racetrack in the Bronx. August Belmont Jr., a Harvard graduate and suave businessman, wants to build the largest racetrack in the United States. Belmont Park in Elmont, just outside of New York City, came into being in 1905 to honor Mr. Belmont’s father, August Belmont Sr.

England started its own acclaimed races in 1809, the 2,000 Guineas Stakes, the Epsom Derby, and the St. Leger Stakes. The American races matched those of England’s. The term “Triple Crown” did not enter people’s minds until the early 1930s.

The Belmont Stakes is the oldest of the Triple Crown races. Called “The Test of Champions.” -Charismatic Connection

We are not going to encounter the same exact person but we will "see" the same essence. This is exactly what I experienced with Chris. The moment Chris and I were in the presence of each other, we were completely put in a trance by one another.

We crossed paths for years and each time we locked eyes, we were under a spell. However, this was a process of awakening, our personalities were very confused about our connection.

It was not until 1999 when unlikely longshot named Charismatic and his jockey Chris Antley (Yes, that Chris) made history winning the Kentucky Derby that my connection with him made sense.


Charismatic Connection is an amazing story, I wish more people understood how extraordinary it really is...

Pick up a copy of Charismatic Connection www.amazon.com/author/serenajade today?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#89: Do you desire the Ring or the Person?

"On earth, a diamond may be forever but a true Soul Mate/Twin Flame bond is for eternity."-Serena Jade

I don't think there is a woman in the western world, who doesn't want a beautiful diamond engagement ring...

Historically, engagement rings were insurance for the woman, if her lover walked out on her before the big day. She kept the ring and could use the money.

Since the 1940's  and De Beers Jewelers, marketing "A diamond is forever" and the rise in equality; a diamond is considered a symbol of love.

However, I am going to dispute this claim that the Ring is a symbol of eternal love. The ring in our society is still very much a symbol of status and security for the woman. She now has her man to provide the emotion of security for her. Ideally, she should be emotionally secure and the man should be her Timeless-Jewel!

"I feel in the future, there will be a mutual exchange of finite-matter to symbolize a commitment to marry."-Serena Jade

What is more important the ring or the person you say you love?  

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#88: Gut Instinct vs. a Sixth-Sense...

Romeo

Years ago, I was hiking Prospect Mountain in Lake George, NY with my dog Romeo. I was intrigued with Romeo's instincts on that day in August of 1991. My dog was not on a leash and was walking beside me. Periodically, Romeo would stop for a second, assess the path before him and could feel the ground underneath, then would move and step in the solid direction. 

Would you say, my dog was intuitive or instinctive?

I am a little biased when it comes to collies however, at that moment Romeo was displaying his instinctual internal mechanism to survive.

When someone says, listen to your gut, it is implying to listen to the third chakra. The third chakra is located in the gut and it is associated with survival.

A Sixth-Sense is the sixth chakra and pertains to information not about survival instinct but of a higher-nature beyond time and space. To be Clairvoyant (able to see the intangible) Clairsentient( Clear-Feeling)  Claircognizance (Clear-Knowing) and Clairaudient (clear-hearing).

I was walking alone in the desert yesterday and my gut was asking me, "Am I safe?" This was not my sixth-sense but my gut instinct. 

Next time you say, "Gut feeling," can you step back and determine if the information is about survival or of a higher-nature?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#87: Are you Passive, Aggressive or Assertive?

When we are passive, we allow others to choose for us, we are inhibited and lack self-confidence. As a reaction to our passivity, we whine, withdraw, fear our own anger or fear anger from someone else.


When we are aggressive, we choose for others but by hurting them. We are expressive but at the expense of another. If we don't like others behavior, as a reaction, we punish or hold a grudge. We frustrate others and our self. We use others in a victimizing way to get what we want.

When we are assertive, we feel good about our self, as we express and choose for our self. As a proactive response to our assertiveness, we are interested in the feelings of another and feel good about our own feelings. We take responsibility for our own fears, and how we feel. We feel good that we are uninhibited to express our thoughts and we feel good by asserting our self, regardless of the outcome!

Are you being passive or aggressive, but like to be more assertive?

Are you aware of the passive, aggressive, assertiveness difference in yourself?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#85: We say in a domestic violence case the victim is not to blame, but is that the best mindset?

Domestic violence is not just physical abuse. More often than  physical, it is the mental that is most damaging, because it is subtle. Most people don't even consider verbal abuse damaging!

The victim attracts the abuser into his or her life. Most people would say, how can that be? If that is the way they were treated by one or both of their parents, this is what unconsciously feels familiar.

"One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious."-Carl Jung

So, wouldn't it be better to say to both the predator and prey-you can benefit by understanding and transforming your unhealthy inherited behavior?

Are you ready to take accountability for your unconscious dysfunction?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#84: Is George Clooney popular because he represents the Traditional Man?

George Clooney has a flair and represents, the all macho-persona. He marries a very bright and beautiful woman. Amal Clooney grew up in a traditional Muslim household: The man holds the power. The rest of the world holds the same imbalance of power on the domestic front.

I am sure Amal holds her power in her profession but, she married into a traditional marriage.  She was asked, "If her new husband would be vocal in the cases she takes on?"

She answered, "I would hope that even at this very early stage in marriage, I am wise enough to know which cause he wants to support."

The person who adheres to the healthy interdependent relationship would have answered; We are two independent people and share power equally. We support each other's goals!

“It is not the strongest or the most intelligent who will survive but those who can best manage change.”-Charles Darwin

Are you ready to change the traditional marriage mindset?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#83: Do you know Sex and Soul Mates are intimately linked but worlds apart from an ordinary attraction?

The bond between soul mates/twin flames transcends time and space. However, when they meet or know about one another in this dimension, the natural sexual energy will be stirring. Combine an eternal bond with sexual energy you have a mega-intense connection.

In an ordinary attraction, the pair are attracted to the body and personality. The body and personality are very transitory and can be replaced-until death do us part. The sex is about pleasing and exploiting.

The bond between soul mates/twin flames is eternal. The sex between them is about sharing their body to become one, and to transcend the time and space in this world!

However, both parties ideally must be autonomous to achieve a give and take.  The Soul Mate Prep Blog: The Soul Mate Prep Blog#56: Both people desire sex...: In the beginning, both people are going with the flow with their new found sexual partner. However, that doesn't last long, power s...

Do you want something more out of life than just a transitory attraction?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#82: Do You Remember The Witches of East End?

Witches of East End was a television series and took place on the east end of Long Island, but was filmed elsewhere. The east end is supposed to be a portal to the other side. Ironically, my father and my dog are buried on the east end!

The show is centered on a particular family of witches. They talk about their past lives together. Last night, the mother witch tells the daughter, "you have loved the same man in different lifetimes." The mother then says, "you loved his soul in different incarnations as his body and personality were different in each lifetime." The daughter responds, "that's weird."

I am like "Duh!" -That is the true definition of a soul mate.

"Wow" is the word that describes the recognition of a soul one is connected with...

"I enter the Dunkin Donuts shop, and who is sitting at the counter eating a donut: Chris Antley. I walk in, and Chris jumps up and shouts to me, “Wow!” His immortal being is amazed, filled with wonder—the effect our souls have on one other is extraordinary.

Chris and I are discovering the piercing vibration of our eternal existence, and it makes us scream with delight. Recognizing a soul whom I have loved for eons is a spine-tingling, pleasurable experience. The act of becoming consciously aware of our spiritual nature is an authentic, “Wow.”-Excerpt from Charismatic Connection

Do you think you can recognize a soul you're connected with? 


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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#80: Did Adam and Eve have great Self-Esteem?

Two people with great self-esteem, take responsibility for their actions and feelings. They have a sense of value and can manage their thoughts and feelings on their own. They don't have to blame or control someone else to feel ok.

Did Adam and Eve have this interaction?

God asked Adam: Who made you eat from the tree?

Adam answered: The woman you put here with me-she gave me some fruit from the tree.

God asked the woman: What is it that you have done?

The woman answered: The serpent gave me the fruit.

Clearly, Adam and Eve didn't have a high sense of value for themselves or each other!

Do you want this relationship to continue to be the role-model?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#79: Do you speak and act with Integrity?

The color blue is associated with the voice of our true self. When
our mind and emotions are working on the same team, we have the power to make a wise choice! We make the best decision from our place of authenticity.

"To speak with integrity is authenticity."-Serena Jade

Integrity-from Wi " kipedia:

Integrity is a personal choice, an uncompromising and consistent commitment to honor moral, ethical, spiritual, and artistic values and principles.
 
"I value my conviction about my experience and knowledge about the soul and soul mates."-Serena Jade

I am not going to lie for personal gain knowing what all mystics past and present and I, understand about the soul. And the soul is not the ego! Soul Mates and Twin Flames are mates to one's soul.  Lying for personal gain is what has happened and is happening with soul mates and twin flames. "The Twin Flame Journey People" are not initiated into the mystical, hidden experience, and lie to make a profit or for personal gain as they twist the understanding to make people think they know. And naive people fall for it, because they are hearing what they want to hear as opposed to hearing what they need to hear. 

The extraordinary bond-known as soul mates have been corrupted...

Remember, corruption means to speak and act dishonestly in return for money or personal gain.

The sacred bond of soul mates/twin flames have been reduced to lust and survival needs. I say with integrity, STOP MAKING THE LOVE OF SOUL MATES THE PROFANE!

Will you speak and act with integrity today?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#78: Does your rational mind blow off a sixth sense?

We live in a Five sensory world! The thought of tapping into another sense does not rule our world.

However, the only way we can recognize our own soul and soul mates is through the sixth sense, because the soul is intangible.

So, both women and men have to be in touch with another sense. It is much easier for a introverted person to understand their intuitive mind. Intuition comes from the Latin, "to see within." It is a lot harder for the extroverted person because their focus is mainly directed outward, but not impossible to achieve.

Are you in touch with your sixth sense?

If not, would you like to be?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#77: Is Plato's wisdom about soul mates folklore?

"Each person's shape was complete: they were round, with their backs and sides forming a circle. They had four hands and the same number of legs, and two absolutely identical faces on a cylindrical neck."-Excerpt from Symposium

Article after article, conversation after conversation, I hear the same description of Plato's wisdom. Did anyone read Symposium?


I love this wisdom from Symposium, and I feel it is more important than the above: "As we all know, love and Aphrodite are inseparable. The duality of Aphrodite is undeniable: One Aphrodite, the one we call celestial is older. The other, the younger one is called common."- Plato

In other words, the bond between companion soul mates is an infinite connection, as opposed to the self-interests between personalities.

The one called common has to do with our personality and survival needs. The one called celestial has to do with the deeper part of us. The common relationship will just satisfy our survival needs as Karmic obstacles will infuse chaos and the soul is unconscious to the parties involved.

Ultimately..."If we conduct ourselves with reverence towards the gods, then he will restore us to our original nature, healed and blessed with perfect happiness."-Excerpt from Symposium

The ego finally makes the unity with your soul, and brings together your human nature with your spiritual essence-YOU COMPLETE YOU!
 
The reunion with our other half [of our Divine nature] will be our mirror and we don't own the mirror, we regard the reflection with great awe and devotion!

Two separate complete individuals, mirroring their Divine qualities and becoming greater and stronger together...

Do you think Plato, the great lover of truth was writing folklore?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#76: Do your self-interests fuel your desires?

The subject of marriage is ingrained in us and as a collective whole, we have been taught to follow our family and friends. I ask you, why do you think your relationship is not going to be like everyone else?

Years ago, Oprah had a psychologist on her show and he said, “When we finish our childhood, we may live happily ever after.” We as a collective whole assume the other person is going to complete us, but that is our job!

The great Joseph Campbell said the Troubadours of the 13^th century understood love at the level of the heart. The centuries that followed changed our collective- mind in the WEST, where we can pick our own mate instead of the church and or our family picking for us. Mr. Campbell states, “Love at the heart is NOT primarily of self-interest.” Our collective society is primarily operating on self-interests and still following our family.

"We live in a society, where it is acceptable to take a pill and one is cured! Attachments fuel Self-interests and this is not the heart level!"-Serena Jade 

 

Are you ready to be an explorer of your personal history and eradicate self-interests?

 

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