The Soul Mate Prep Blog#89: Do you desire the Ring or the Person?

"On earth, a diamond may be forever but a true Soul Mate/Twin Flame bond is for eternity."-Serena Jade

I don't think there is a woman in the western world, who doesn't want a beautiful diamond engagement ring...

Historically, engagement rings were insurance for the woman, if her lover walked out on her before the big day. She kept the ring and could use the money.

Since the 1940's  and De Beers Jewelers, marketing "A diamond is forever" and the rise in equality; a diamond is considered a symbol of love.

However, I am going to dispute this claim that the Ring is a symbol of eternal love. The ring in our society is still very much a symbol of status and security for the woman. She now has her man to provide the emotion of security for her. Ideally, she should be emotionally secure and the man should be her Timeless-Jewel!

"I feel in the future, there will be a mutual exchange of finite-matter to symbolize a commitment to marry."-Serena Jade

What is more important the ring or the person you say you love?  

"Self-Knowledge is the Jewel."-Serena Jade
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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#76: Do your self-interests fuel your desires?

The subject of marriage is ingrained in us and as a collective whole, we have been taught to follow our family and friends. I ask you, why do you think your relationship is not going to be like everyone else?

Years ago, Oprah had a psychologist on her show and he said, “When we finish our childhood, we may live happily ever after.” We as a collective whole assume the other person is going to complete us, but that is our job!

The great Joseph Campbell said the Troubadours of the 13^th century understood love at the level of the heart. The centuries that followed changed our collective- mind in the WEST, where we can pick our own mate instead of the church and or our family picking for us. Mr. Campbell states, “Love at the heart is NOT primarily of self-interest.” Our collective society is primarily operating on self-interests and still following our family.

"We live in a society, where it is acceptable to take a pill and one is cured! Attachments fuel Self-interests and this is not the heart level!"-Serena Jade 

 

Are you ready to be an explorer of your personal history and eradicate self-interests?

 

"Self-Knowledge is the Jewel."-Serena Jade

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