The Soul Mate Prep Blog#51: Do people See and Respect you?

 I was born into a family who rejected me. Thus, my primary needs

Serena Jade being shamed and rejected.

 
like respect and being taken seriously have eluded me. My family were the first people who dismissed me as if I were not there. These unmet childhood needs have controlled my life.

Through my 47-years on this planet, I have recreated the same situation over and over again. I am not seen as a person who has deep wisdom.

Shame and self-doubt has become my identity. How will I overcome this demon?

Just recently, I let go of control and got in touch with my hurt and anger. As I cut through the deep emotional pain, I am able to cease the negative voice.

I have created a mantra: I am seen and respected!

Only time will tell if my new voice will bring me peace...

Were you the Good child or Bad child?

The Good child is always seen and respected.
The Bad Child is dismissed and disrespected.

"Self-Knowledge is the Jewel of all Knowledge."-Serena Jade
         www.serenajade.co




 

The Soul Mate Prep Blog#50: Are you personally and spiritually on the path?

The dawning of the New Age in the 1960's saw a burst of being self-aware and eastern spiritual wisdom. If you grew up in the 1960's, you might be a person who witnessed this explosion.

Fast forward forty-eight years and the year is 2014...I am person who doesn't have any doubts of my spiritual existence. But, I have to work very hard to understand me at the personal level due to my family of origin's unhealthy ways.

I am not a person who has followed along with my family or peers. I have awakened to my personal dysfunction and I strive every day towards the union with my soul.

There is a difference between knowing about the path vs. living the path. There are a lot people who know about the path...

It is very hard to live on this road less traveled because your family, friends, neighbors are probably not living the path. For me, it has been a frustrating journey because there are not many people who can live without the influence of society telling them what is important.

However, I know if I am not true to myself, I will just follow the motions of life and never succeed towards my soul's destiny!

Are you ready to live the path?

"Self-Knowledge is the Jewel of all Knowledge."-Serena Jade
         Author/Speaker/Body, Mind, and Soul Consultant
                                                    www.serenajade.co

The Soul Mate Prep Blog#49: Can you let go of control?

We all know the saying; you plan and God laughs. However, how many of us truly live this statement?

To live without plans is living in the moment without trying to control. When we give up control, we are going to feel empty. If we can get over the hump, we are in touch with the flow of life.
We become more in tune with our intuition; the inner wisdom of our immortal being.

Chinese medicine says, the gallbladder is associated with control. The more one's ego wants to control, the longer the soul stays hidden and neglected.

Are you ready to give up control?

"Self-Knowledge is the Jewel of all Knowledge."-Serena Jade
         Author/Speaker/Body, Mind, and Soul Consultant
                                                      www.serenajade.co
 

The Soul Mate Prep Blog#48: Are you truly independent?

The interdependent couple are two people who are independent, share power equally and take accountability for their actions and feelings.

Do we have such a role model?

As a collective society, we are just starting to transform the way we mate. In long-past times, we mated for security, social obligations and economic support. We are either co-dependent: a pseudo-independent or dependent.

Be honest and ask yourself...Do I cling to another? Do I want control of another? Do I make demands on another? Do I want to possess another?

If you answered "yes" to any of the above, you are not truly independent. Childhood unmet needs are controlling your behavior-you are not free to have a healthy relationship.

Do you want to free yourself?

"Self-Knowledge is the Jewel of all Knowledge."- Serena Jade
Author/Speaker/Body, Mind, and Soul Consultant
                                    www.serenajade.co
 

The Soul Mate Prep Blog#47: Are you ready to unplug?

"Self-Knowledge is the Jewel of all Knowledge."-Serena Jade

"The Pharisees (influential group of Jews) and the scholars have taken the keys of knowledge and have hidden them. They have not entered, nor have they allowed those who want to enter to do so."-Gospel of St. Thomas

In the 1945, in the land of a timeless desert of upper Egypt, ancient scrolls were discovered. The long-past writings are from a group of people (the Gnostics) who Knew self-knowledge was the key to know one's self, and the Transcendent force of the universe.

"I feel the Gnostic scrolls were unearthed now, because we are living in a time where we have the outer freedom, to acquire inner wisdom."-Serena Jade 

Self-knowledge is different than what you have been taught outwardly.
Can you handle being different from mainstream society?

Serena Jade
Author/Speaker/Body, Mind, and Soul Consultant
www.serenajade.co

The Soul Mate Prep Blog#46: Are you ready to gallop into your own?

We just entered the Chinese year of the horse. Having spent my early years with the thoroughbred; I can say horses are gorgeous, exude power but at the same time are vulnerable. Horses have a sixth sense and can feel your calmness or fear...

Can you emulate the horse?

Can you take care of your body?

Can you own your power and be vulnerable at the same time?

Are you in touch with your sixth sense?

"Self-Knowledge is the Jewel of all Knowledge." -Serena Jade
Author/Speaker/Body, Mind, and Soul Consultant
                                        www.serenajade.co

 

The Soul Mate Prep Blog#45: Did you know Soul Mates are not just a romantic partner?

I love Dr. Brian Weiss's (author of Many Lives, Many Masters) description of soul mates: Picture a tree it has a trunk for stability and the leaves on the same branch are our soul mates. The leaves on the same twig are the closest.

Our soul's mates can have the same but slightly different experiences. When we start to understand our eternal nature, the souls closest to us will awaken with us.

I connected with my father's passion for horse racing. Horses were a love between my father's soul and mine from another lifetime. My father was definitely a soul mate of mine. Which led me to reunite with Chris who was a very close soul mate. This is my book Charismatic Connection ,you might want to read it!

My father passed away 22 years-ago and when he was alive he would tell my mother, he has been here before. I didn't know this information until years after his death.

I hope to reunite with his soul before I die and obviously his soul will be in a different body and not my father's body. In the near future, I hope to reunite with the other souls that are closest to my soul too. The closest would be my deepest Most-Profound Eternal Love.

Do you think you can recognize your soul's mates?

"Self-Knowledge is the Jewel of all Knowledge."-Serena Jade
          Author/Speaker/Body, Mind, and Soul Consultant
                                                       www.serenajade.co