The Soul Mate Prep Blog#110: Are you familiar with the author Caroline Myss?

In Caroline Myss's book, Archetypes she says, Many spiritual seekers today think of the spiritual path as a route to health, happiness and security. However, these are not the core goals to an authentic spiritual path. A true spiritual path focuses you inward to discover interior qualities and confront your inner obstacles.

To follow a spiritual path is a lot harder then just wanting the basics of life. When most acquire health, happiness and the so-called security, we then want something more and usually it is peace.

However, peace comes when we uncover all our ego's obstacles and are in touch with the unseen force within a.k.a. the soul. Then we can live from our heart which constructs harmony between the ego and soul. We now have peace and are living authentically.  

Are you up for the challenge to follow an authentic spiritual path?

If not, soul mates are beyond your reach!

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#109: Do you think abundance is fulfillment?

If you observe, you will notice people think abundance is fulfillment. If one is realistic, one will know abundance only goes so far. There are other aspects to life, like the emotion of joy.

As a society, we associate abundance with joy. But when we get such and such, that happiness only lasts for a moment. Joy lasts for a long time.

Joy is the emotion of the heart. The heart connects our ego with our immortal soul. When we are in joy, we combine material abundance with the ethereal soul; a heaven on earth life!

Do you want to experience heaven on earth?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#108: Did you feel for the people in August: Osage County?

"What you have in you, will save you. If you don't have that within you, what you don't have in you, will destroy you."-Gospel of St. Thomas

August: Osage County was on Broadway a few years back and the film version was released a year and a half ago. It was labeled an American dark comedy drama.

I have to ask, who would label a dysfunctional family who are in so much pain a comedy?

The writer executed the pain but I feel there was no redeeming quality to the story. Even though, I would call the characters "too far gone," meaning it is too late for someone to uncover all the non-functional issues one has suffered. When someone is "too far gone" their denial is so strong, they are blinded by their pain and can't see they're the only one who can save them. However, the writer could have put the youngest in therapy to understand what she had inherited.

Can you feel for your own suffering?

"The “run for the carnations” brings home to me the origin of this divine flower. The first carnation appeared on Earth when Mary wept for the pain and suffering for Jesus. The deepest part of me is weeping for the misery and torture of Charismatic, and also for all the people who are in psychological and emotional agony. The crowd is feeling my grief and that of Charismatic. I know deep down all of us have the compassion to open our hearts and feel for ourselves and others."-Excerpt from Charismatic Connection

"A dysfunctional family is full of suffering and continues the cycle by reproducing and then expects that generation to heal them."-Serena Jade

Do you have the courage to heal your dysfunction you inherited?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#107: Did You See the movie, Eyes Wide Shut and the secret party of Hieros Gamos?

I never saw the film, Eyes Wide Shut before a few days ago. In the film, Tom Cruise and his then wife Nicole Kidman portray a married couple. Married for years and like 99.9% of the population, their relationship lacked intimacy. Tom Cruise's character took his wife for granted and thought his wife was never going to cheat on him.

One night, the wife tells him, she was inches away from the temptation. Tom Cruise's character couldn't handle hearing the truth and withdraws, thus goes wandering the streets of New York City...He coaxes an old friend to give him the password to a private party on Long Island, of all places. He stumbles into a secret sex ceremony, witnessing what was supposed to be Hieros Gamos.

I then remembered, Dan Brown wrote about the film in The Da Vinci Code. Dan Brown writes, Intercourse was the revered union of the two halves of the human spirit-male and female-through which you could find spiritual wholeness and communion with God.

Hieros Gamos (the holy union) and Tantra (expanding the mind) were not practiced in mainstream society. It was hidden from society because the sacred act is not about procreation or a lower form of sex.

 Dan Brown writes, "it is a deeply sacrosanct ceremony."

I would like to define Mysticism: Mysticism is derived from the Greek, meaning what is concealed. Mysticism is shutting the eyes, but opening the third eye, and shutting the mouth to experience the spiritual mystery within and without....Eyes Wide Shut.

“The ancients were not of mainstream thought and their social order as well as our society is ruled by the first three chakras. A true sexual spiritual encounter is never going to happen as long as we are ruled by security, exploitation of sex, money and power. Tantra is an ancient philosophy that means to expand the mind and the purpose is to see yourself and your partner as the God and Goddess united as one. This is a very intense sexual experience and both partners need to be on equal setting in order for this to take place.”-Excerpt from The Auto-Bond

Would you like to participate in sacred sex?

If so, a prerequisite is to know your own soul, as spiritual energy meets matter...Are you ready to experience the Transcendent?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#106: Are you the Co-Dependent Caretaker?

Last week I had a vivid dream; a man was drowning in a pool and another man was in the pool with him. I was standing outside the pool watching and I screamed," You can save him." But the other man didn't help and I didn't jump in, I watched the man go under.

This dream was very profound, I was conditioned at a young age to be the caretaker. The caretaker pays too much attention to other people's problems at the expense of their own well-being and needs!

The caretaker sets up a triangle known as the Karpman Drama. The caretaker is the rescuer but the person who their rescuing (victim) unconsciously resents the help, thus becomes the persecutor to the caretaker and now the caretaker becomes the victim! 

In my life, I now state, no one becomes more important than me! In the near future, I can meet my

mirror image and hold him in awe without possession!

Are you the Co-dependent Caretaker with your parents, siblings, friends, spouse or children?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#105: Are you the Selfish-One or the People-Pleaser?

In all relationships, there's one person trying to avoid separation or avoiding too much togetherness.

The person who is trying to avoid separateness had parents who withheld attention, affection and are the people-pleasers.

The person who is trying to avoid too much togetherness had parents who invaded their space and are the selfish-ones.

In the beginning of any relationship, both people are flowing and creating an unrealistic scenario and giving up all their time. Down the road, one person starts to pull away and the one who is trying to avoid separation experiences the loss of all togetherness. Fear creates the tension and the struggle for power and distance is upon us.

"When the power of love overcomes the love for power, the world (and you) will know peace."-Jimi Hendrix-I am inserting [you] because when we overcome the love for power, you will know peace!

How can we overcome this very common interplay? 

We need to become fully autonomous and own our independence and space. So, then we have the ideal trinity-My Space, Your Space and Our Space!

But, for this to work both people need to confront their fears of trying to avoid too much separateness or togetherness.

Are you ready to stop focusing on trying to prevent your partner, friend, child from abandoning you?


Are you ready to give up some of your time and embrace togetherness?

If we can accomplish this very difficult task; we can experience real intimacy regardless if you are soul mates or not. But, this authentic intimacy will be extremely intense with true soul mates!

Taken from the book, The Two Step: The Dance Toward Intimacy by Eileen McCann

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