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Monday, April 6, 2015

The Soul Mate Prep Blog#111: Are You Ready For A New Spiritual- Worldview?

Inspiring People On The Spiritual Path, Toward Self-Knowledge
 
To Bridge The Gap Between The Material And The Spiritual, An Authentic New Age 

Serena Jade- A New Age Spirituality Leader-

The First and Most Essential Service To An Authentic Age of Aquarius is this: Opening Your Ego Mind To The Mystery of Your Own Soul. 

In her book Archetypes, Caroline Myss says, "The life journey of the visionary is one of envisioning new possibilities and bringing the future into the present. Visionaries are often outsiders, not fitting in becomes their best asset."

Author Eckhart Tolle also said, "Being an outsider, someone who does not fit in with others or is rejected by them, MAKES LIFE DIFFICULT. But it also places them at an advantage as far as enlightenment is concerned. It takes them out of [society's mindset] almost by force."

Serena Jade is a Mystic. The esoteric wisdom of all religions are very similar, they focus on the soul within the person, and a God who cannot be named. When someone embarks on the esoteric path, they are mystics. This is not about belief, this is about self-knowledge, which leads them to remember their soul, and the Transcendent Force of the Universe.


"There is some sort of discoverable truth to existence, that is its unified nature. I think if you leave someone isolated for long enough. They will come to the same conclusions. And the same conclusions force one logically, into the same metaphysical paradigm."-Seekers of Unity


Serena Jade at the Temple of Apollo in Delphi, Greece!


What would you do if your mother rejected you as soon as you came into the world? What would you do, if you were labeled different  from your family members just because you are born?  What would you do if you were cast out, forgotten, abandoned, left to fend for yourself? 

This scenario becomes your life's fate. Cast out from society because you want above all else to be accepted. But that is not your reality. The reality is this is the role of the scapegoat, alone in the world. 

This has been my life's fate. However, in response to not being accepted, I followed the left handed path. I didn't follow the crowd. No one would make a conscious choice not to follow the crowd. No one would make a conscious choice to be seen as different, we want to fit in.  It is a hard, painful life, not to be accepted and cast out with no allies behind you. But the unfair advantage is you can follow the impulse of your feeling system. 

The crowd follows what has been handed down to them. This would include religion and love connections. The crowd cannot see past this worldview because everyone is having a collective experience. 

But the one who is not having that collective experience is the scapegoat. Now you can get stuck on the negative or you can transcend that to witness, what the collective cannot see. 

I did just that, and I can see what the collective cannot. But I also  followed my feeling system, which led me to have an unfair advantage, as far as experiencing true Soul Mates and with all the prayers in the world, my deepest most profound eternal love.


I prayed at the Vatican and I meditated by the River Ganges. I prayed and meditated for days in the old city of Jerusalem.  
I climbed Mt. Sinai,  but since my visit to Delphi, Greece; the ancient spiritual center of the world, I have been envisioning new possibilities.








At
the present moment, Society functions at the lower levels of Survival, Procreation-(Survival of our Species), Sex at the lower level, Power or lack of Power, Co-dependency and Attachment. 

We live in a world, where our rational ego mind dominates. What if we lived in accordance with our spiritual intuitive mind? What would that look like?

Our rational mind says, we need to abide by the extroverted rules of our social order. We are ruled by our five senses. What we see, hear, touch, taste and smell is the law.

Very logical, objective thought is accepted and never questioned. If one deviates from "the law" and lives by an inner knowing, they are thought to be crazy

Fear, sets in for the people around this person, as that person is reflecting fear in the other. To be intuitive is to have a sense to look within and pay attention to the information, that is not logical!

In the course of our history, there have been groups of secret societies, pertaining to self-knowledge. These people were initiated into developing their spiritual sense. They were initiated into understanding, self-knowledge is the road toward understanding their spiritual nature. In so doing, they had a direct experience, with their soul and the transcendent force. 











"Your soul must teach your ego to appreciate what is holy and Godly."-Rabbi Friedman

"Heaven is NOT the better place because if you don't get it here, you are not getting there!"-Serena Jade

 The Age of Aquarius can mirror ancient Delphi. On the outer stones of the temple of Apollo at Delphi, are carved guidelines for how to live a good life. Written on these walls is the foundation for a great society. In order for the general public to grow and flourish, not only economically but also morally, people must have self-awareness. The injunctions, “Know thyself” and “Nothing in excess,” are requirements for an advanced civilization.

Secret societies that transpired in the early centuries of this Common Era, and was revived in the European Renaissance believed human perfection and happiness were attainable in this world; without awaiting an afterlife. They knew self-knowledge was the key to achieve heaven on earth! However, they were not living in a free world, but we are in the west!  

Why are you not taking advantage of our freedom?

Can you envision a new-worldview? 

Are you ready for a new Myth? A Myth is commonly used as a misconception or someone else's religion. But, the intended meaning is a sacred story, containing deep Behavioral, Psychological, & Spiritual guidance to the society that it applies to.-Serena Jade











"Self-Knowledge is the Jewel."-Serena Jade
Creating Awareness/Uplifting Society
Bringing unconscious Social/Spiritual wisdom to the world...

Monday, March 30, 2015

The Soul Mate Prep Blog#110: Are you familiar with the author Caroline Myss?

In Caroline Myss's book, Archetypes she says, Many spiritual seekers today think of the spiritual path as a route to health, happiness and security. However, these are not the core goals to an authentic spiritual path. A true spiritual path focuses you inward to discover interior qualities and confront your inner obstacles.



To follow a spiritual path is a lot harder then just wanting the basics of life. When most acquire health, happiness and the so-called security, we then want something more and usually it is peace.

However, peace comes when we uncover all our ego's obstacles and are in touch with the unseen force within a.k.a. the soul. Then we can live from our heart which constructs harmony between the ego and soul. We now have peace and are living authentically.  

Are you up for the challenge to follow an authentic spiritual path?

If not, soul mates are beyond your reach!

"Self-Knowledge is the Jewel."-Serena Jade
Creating Awareness/Uplifting Society
Bringing unconscious Social/Spiritual wisdom to the world...
www.serenajade.com

Monday, March 16, 2015

The Soul Mate Prep Blog#108: Did you feel for the people in August: Osage County?

"What you have in you, will save you. If you don't have that within you, what you don't have in you, will destroy you."-Gospel of St. Thomas

August: Osage County was on Broadway a few years back and the film version was released a year and a half ago. It was labeled an American dark comedy drama.

I have to ask, who would label a dysfunctional family who are in so much pain a comedy?

The writer executed the pain but I feel there was no redeeming quality to the story. Even though, I would call the characters "too far gone," meaning it is too late for someone to uncover all the non-functional issues one has suffered. When someone is "too far gone" their denial is so strong, they are blinded by their pain and can't see they're the only one who can save them. However, the writer could have put the youngest in therapy to understand what she had inherited.

Can you feel for your own suffering?

"The “run for the carnations” brings home to me the origin of this divine flower. The first carnation appeared on Earth when Mary wept for the pain and suffering for Jesus. The deepest part of me is weeping for the misery and torture of Charismatic, and also for all the people who are in psychological and emotional agony. The crowd is feeling my grief and that of Charismatic. I know deep down all of us have the compassion to open our hearts and feel for ourselves and others."-Excerpt from Charismatic Connection

"A dysfunctional family is full of suffering and continues the cycle by reproducing and then expects that generation to heal them."-Serena Jade

Do you have the courage to heal your dysfunction you inherited?

"Self-Knowledge is the Jewel."-Serena Jade
Creating Awareness/Uplifting Society
Bringing unconscious Social/Spiritual wisdom to the world...
www.serenajade.com

 

Monday, March 9, 2015

The Soul Mate Prep Blog#107: Did You See the movie, Eyes Wide Shut and the secret party of Hieros Gamos?


I never saw the film, Eyes Wide Shut before a few days ago. In the film, Tom Cruise and his then wife Nicole Kidman portray a married couple. Married for years and like 99.9% of the population, their relationship lacked intimacy. Tom Cruise's character took his wife for granted and thought his wife was never going to cheat on him.


One night, the wife tells him, she was inches away from the temptation. Tom Cruise's character couldn't handle hearing the truth and withdraws, thus goes wandering the streets of New York City...He coaxes an old friend to give him the password to a private party on Long Island, of all places. He stumbles into a secret sex ceremony, witnessing what was supposed to be Hieros Gamos.

I then remembered, Dan Brown wrote about the film in The Da Vinci Code. Dan Brown writes, Intercourse was the revered union of the two halves of the human spirit-male and female-through which you could find spiritual wholeness and communion with God.

Hieros Gamos (the holy union) and Tantra (expanding the mind) were not practiced in mainstream society. It was hidden from society because the sacred act is not about procreation or a lower form of sex.

 Dan Brown writes, "it is a deeply sacrosanct ceremony."



I would like to define Mysticism: Mysticism is derived from the Greek, meaning what is concealed. Mysticism is shutting the eyes, but opening the third eye, and shutting the mouth to experience the spiritual mystery within and without....Eyes Wide Shut.

“The ancients were not of mainstream thought and their social order as well as our society is ruled by the first three chakras. A true sexual spiritual encounter is never going to happen as long as we are ruled by security, exploitation of sex, money and power. Tantra is an ancient philosophy that means to expand the mind and the purpose is to see yourself and your partner as the God and Goddess united as one. This is a very intense sexual experience and both partners need to be on equal setting in order for this to take place.”-Excerpt from The Auto-Bond

Would you like to participate in sacred sex?

If so, a prerequisite is to know your own soul, as spiritual energy meets matter...Are you ready to experience the Transcendent?

"Self-Knowledge is the Jewel."-Serena Jade
Creating Awareness/ Uplifting Society
Bringing unconscious Social/ Spiritual wisdom to the world...

Thursday, March 5, 2015

The Soul Mate Prep Blog#106: Are you the Co-Dependent Caretaker?

Last week I had a vivid dream; a man was drowning in a pool and another man was in the pool with him. I was standing outside the pool watching and I screamed," You can save him." But the other man didn't help and I didn't jump in, I watched the man go under.

This dream was very profound, I was conditioned at a young age to be the caretaker. The caretaker pays too much attention to other people's problems at the expense of their own well-being and needs!

The caretaker sets up a triangle known as the Karpman Drama. The caretaker is the rescuer but the person who their rescuing (victim) unconsciously resents the help, thus becomes the persecutor to the caretaker and now the caretaker becomes the victim! 

In my life, I now state, no one becomes more important than me! In the near future, I can meet my

mirror image and hold him in awe without possession!

Are you the Co-dependent Caretaker with your parents, siblings, friends, spouse or children?

"Self-Knowledge is the Jewel."-Serena Jade
Creating Awareness/Uplifting Society
Bringing unconscious Social/Spiritual wisdom to the world...
www.serenajade.co

Monday, March 2, 2015

The Soul Mate Prep Blog#105: Are you the Selfish-One or the People-Pleaser?

In all relationships, there's one person trying to avoid separation or avoiding too much togetherness.

The person who is trying to avoid separateness had parents who withheld attention, affection and are the people-pleasers.

The person who is trying to avoid too much togetherness had parents who invaded their space and are the selfish-ones.

In the beginning of any relationship, both people are flowing and creating an unrealistic scenario and giving up all their time. Down the road, one person starts to pull away and the one who is trying to avoid separation experiences the loss of all togetherness. Fear creates the tension and the struggle for power and distance is upon us.

"When the power of love overcomes the love for power, the world (and you) will know peace."-Jimi Hendrix-I am inserting [you] because when we overcome the love for power, you will know peace!

How can we overcome this very common interplay? 

We need to become fully autonomous and own our independence and space. So, then we have the ideal trinity-My Space, Your Space and Our Space!

But, for this to work both people need to confront their fears of trying to avoid too much separateness or togetherness.

Are you ready to stop focusing on trying to prevent your partner, friend, child from abandoning you?


Are you ready to give up some of your time and embrace togetherness?

If we can accomplish this very difficult task; we can experience real intimacy regardless if you are soul mates or not. But, this authentic intimacy will be extremely intense with true soul mates!

Taken from the book, The Two Step: The Dance Toward Intimacy by Eileen McCann


"Self-Knowledge is the Jewel."-Serena Jade
Creating Awareness/Uplifting Society
Bringing unconscious Social/Spiritual wisdom to the world...
www.serenajade.co




Monday, February 23, 2015

The Soul Mate Prep Blog#104: Do you abuse your power or do you give it away?

In the book, The Heroine's Journey by Maureen Murdock she explains: In patriarchal relationships, there is always a dominate and submissive. The dominate person has to keep a one up position (abusing their power). 

"To own one's power is to have full autonomy."-Serena Jade

If one had parents who put shame and doubt on them, or they put shame and doubt on others, then one does not own one's autonomy. One will get into ALL relationships, where there is a dominate and submissive.

To have self-knowledge is to know which one you are; 
Are you the dominate or submissive?

"Self-Knowledge is the Jewel."-Serena Jade
Creating Awareness/Uplifting Society
Bringing unconscious wisdom to the world...
www.serenajade.co

Monday, February 16, 2015

The Soul Mate Prep Blog#103: Soul Mates are "the buzz" but our emotions are in the Middle Ages...

Since the dawning of civilization, we have mated for survival! Like a woman I knew in New York, she admitted she picked a husband for "Practical Reasons." Her husband provided an abundance of money, expensive gifts, cars, two children and a gorgeous house in an affluent neighborhood on Long Island.

Her father instilled in her, she was worthy of abundance. However, her father failed to instill in her, she was worthy to be treated with respect and to have fulfillment with the abundance.

She has been married for 15 years and has accepted their lack of emotional closeness. She overlooks his coldness and love for power and control. She has repressed her sexual appetite, they sleep in separate rooms and he doesn't make love to her, they get laid!

She married for "Practical Reasons" NOT for an authentic connection.She is now divorced.

Fifty Shades phenomenon says it all as millions of women still want men for practical reasons!

Women and Men, let's get our emotions balanced, then a soul mate is within our reach. Are you willing to work for an authentic connection?

"Self-Knowledge is the Jewel."-Serena Jade
Creating Awareness/Uplifting Society
Bringing unconscious Social/ Spiritual wisdom to the world...
www.serenajade.co



Monday, February 9, 2015

The Soul Mate Prep Blog#102: Jupiter Ascending-a look at the Heroine's journey...

(Masculine) -Astronomy tells us Jupiter is the largest planet in our solar system. (Feminine)- Astrology tells us Jupiter is about expansion and abundance.

Jupiter Ascending is a new film written and directed by the Wachowski siblings. Jupiter Jones is Cinderella-like. Her father was killed before she was born and now Jupiter and her mother are cleaning ladies. But, Jupiter is a reincarnated Queen. Can she reclaim her throne?

The Wachowski siblings were going for the hero's journey with Jupiter. The hero's journey has been told throughout history that the hero's father is absent from the hero's life. The same sex parent has the most influence in a child's life.

So, in the heroine's journey, the mother figure is the most important. However, there is not that much written about the heroine's journey. All we have are tales of Cinderella, Snow White and they are dealing with stepmothers and sisters. As a society, we don't want to accept there are mothers and sisters who are just as cruel. In real life, the women who endure such cruelty become the caretakers for their elderly parents and who in society have been labeled; Old Maids. But, we are living in the twenty-first century and the caretakers can overcome their fate by an enormous amount of self-knowledge! Then they can use their positive father role model and be effective in the world...the servant becomes the heroine!

Of course, this process takes years of uncovering shame and doubt. The "Good Person" becomes a whole person. They are free from outside influence.

With Jupiter ascending, we don't witness Jupiter asserting her influence. But, nonetheless, I loved the film and I especially loved the ending.

Will you see Jupiter Ascending?

Do you think you can transcend your shame and doubt?

"Self-Knowledge is the Jewel."-Serena Jade
Creating Awareness/ Uplifting Society
Bringing unconscious Social/ Mystical wisdom to the world...
www.serenajade.co


Monday, February 2, 2015

The Soul Mate Prep Blog#101: Do you revere your fellow human?

Ananda Spa, India
 
When I was at Ananda Spa, I loved the gesture of reverence called Anjali mudra. When you walked passed another human you were expected to acknowledge the person.
 
With your hands pressed together and palms touching, it is known that you bow to the Divine in the other.
 
The west is missing this very basic but very profound recognition of the other. However, true soul mates/twin flames naturally "see" the Divine spark!
 
When you walk pass your fellow human, can you acknowledge the person and the Divine energy in them?
 
 
"Self-Knowledge is the Jewel."-Serena Jade
Bringing unconscious Social/Mystical wisdom to the world...
 
 

 

Monday, January 26, 2015

The Soul Mate Prep Blog#100: Do you consider yourself Spiritual?













"The key to growth is the introduction of higher dimensions of consciousness into our awareness."- Lao Tzu

Lao Tzu the founder of Taoism was very wise, but I am going to insert an important word-spiritual.

Spiritual growth is the introduction of higher consciousness. Spiritual growth is NOT the same as personal growth. Personal growth relates to our ego and spiritual growth relates to our soul.

If you say you are spiritual, are you in touch with your sixth sense?

"When we live from the heart, we balance our ego and soul in the here and now."-Serena Jade

Authentic soul mates/twin flames wake up and realize the higher dimensions in the other-true Soul Mates/Twin Flames!

Are you authentically spiritual?

"Self-Knowledge is the Jewel"-Serena Jade
Bringing unconscious Social/Mystical wisdom to the world...
www.serenajade.co

 

Monday, January 19, 2015

The Soul Mate Prep Blog#99: Is it lust or love?

TV personality, Shaun Robinson was interviewing Bobby Brown about his relationship with Whitney Houston the other day. She asked him, "Was it lust at first sight or love at first sight?"

Bobby Brown responds, "Oh that is deep."

I laughed out loud because with all due respect to my fellow humans, it is usually lust at first sight!

If you find my observation offensive-Can you differentiate lust from love?

"Self-Knowledge is the Jewel."-Serena Jade
Bringing unconscious Social/Mystical wisdom to the world...
www.serenajade.co