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Showing posts with label role model. Show all posts
Showing posts with label role model. Show all posts

Monday, February 17, 2014

The Soul Mate Prep Blog#48: Are you truly independent?

The interdependent couple are two people who are independent, share power equally and take accountability for their actions and feelings.

Do we have such a role model?

As a collective society, we are just starting to transform the way we mate. In long-past times, we mated for security, social obligations and economic support. We are either co-dependent: a pseudo-independent or dependent.

Be honest and ask yourself...Do I cling to another? Do I want control of another? Do I make demands on another? Do I want to possess another?

If you answered "yes" to any of the above, you are not truly independent. Childhood unmet needs are controlling your behavior-you are not free to have a healthy relationship.

Do you want to free yourself?

"Self-Knowledge is the Jewel of all Knowledge."- Serena Jade
Author/Speaker/Body, Mind, and Soul Consultant
                                    www.serenajade.co