The Soul Mate Prep Blog#87: Are you Passive, Aggressive or Assertive?

When we are passive, we allow others to choose for us, we are inhibited and lack self-confidence. As a reaction to our passivity, we whine, withdraw, fear our own anger or fear anger from someone else.


When we are aggressive, we choose for others but by hurting them. We are expressive but at the expense of another. If we don't like others behavior, as a reaction, we punish or hold a grudge. We frustrate others and our self. We use others in a victimizing way to get what we want.

When we are assertive, we feel good about our self, as we express and choose for our self. As a proactive response to our assertiveness, we are interested in the feelings of another and feel good about our own feelings. We take responsibility for our own fears, and how we feel. We feel good that we are uninhibited to express our thoughts and we feel good by asserting our self, regardless of the outcome!

Are you being passive or aggressive, but like to be more assertive?

Are you aware of the passive, aggressive, assertiveness difference in yourself?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#85: We say in a domestic violence case the victim is not to blame, but is that the best mindset?

Domestic violence is not just physical abuse. More often than  physical, it is the mental that is most damaging, because it is subtle. Most people don't even consider verbal abuse damaging!

The victim attracts the abuser into his or her life. Most people would say, how can that be? If that is the way they were treated by one or both of their parents, this is what unconsciously feels familiar.

"One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious."-Carl Jung

So, wouldn't it be better to say to both the predator and prey-you can benefit by understanding and transforming your unhealthy inherited behavior?

Are you ready to take accountability for your unconscious dysfunction?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#84: Is George Clooney popular because he represents the Traditional Man?

George Clooney has a flair and represents, the all macho-persona. He marries a very bright and beautiful woman. Amal Clooney grew up in a traditional Muslim household: The man holds the power. The rest of the world holds the same imbalance of power on the domestic front.

I am sure Amal holds her power in her profession but, she married into a traditional marriage.  She was asked, "If her new husband would be vocal in the cases she takes on?"

She answered, "I would hope that even at this very early stage in marriage, I am wise enough to know which cause he wants to support."

The person who adheres to the healthy interdependent relationship would have answered; We are two independent people and share power equally. We support each other's goals!

“It is not the strongest or the most intelligent who will survive but those who can best manage change.”-Charles Darwin

Are you ready to change the traditional marriage mindset?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#83: Do you know Sex and Soul Mates are intimately linked but worlds apart from an ordinary attraction?

The bond between soul mates/twin flames transcends time and space. However, when they meet or know about one another in this dimension, the natural sexual energy will be stirring. Combine an eternal bond with sexual energy you have a mega-intense connection.

In an ordinary attraction, the pair are attracted to the body and personality. The body and personality are very transitory and can be replaced-until death do us part. The sex is about pleasing and exploiting.

The bond between soul mates/twin flames is eternal. The sex between them is about sharing their body to become one, and to transcend the time and space in this world!

However, both parties ideally must be autonomous to achieve a give and take.  The Soul Mate Prep Blog: The Soul Mate Prep Blog#56: Both people desire sex...: In the beginning, both people are going with the flow with their new found sexual partner. However, that doesn't last long, power s...

Do you want something more out of life than just a transitory attraction?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#82: Do You Remember The Witches of East End?

Witches of East End was a television series and took place on the east end of Long Island, but was filmed elsewhere. The east end is supposed to be a portal to the other side. Ironically, my father and my dog are buried on the east end!

The show is centered on a particular family of witches. They talk about their past lives together. Last night, the mother witch tells the daughter, "you have loved the same man in different lifetimes." The mother then says, "you loved his soul in different incarnations as his body and personality were different in each lifetime." The daughter responds, "that's weird."

I am like "Duh!" -That is the true definition of a soul mate.

"Wow" is the word that describes the recognition of a soul one is connected with...

"I enter the Dunkin Donuts shop, and who is sitting at the counter eating a donut: Chris Antley. I walk in, and Chris jumps up and shouts to me, “Wow!” His immortal being is amazed, filled with wonder—the effect our souls have on one other is extraordinary.

Chris and I are discovering the piercing vibration of our eternal existence, and it makes us scream with delight. Recognizing a soul whom I have loved for eons is a spine-tingling, pleasurable experience. The act of becoming consciously aware of our spiritual nature is an authentic, “Wow.”-Excerpt from Charismatic Connection

Do you think you can recognize a soul you're connected with? 


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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#81: What image comes to mind when you hear the word Mysticism?

In today's world, mysticism often leads us to a place of obscurity. It conjures up images of witches, warlocks, sorcery, and vampires. The profound mystery of our eternal essence remains unconscious to many, and thus, what is not conscious is deemed sinister and malevolent.

Mysticism originates from the Greek word for 'that which is hidden.' Typically, mystical experiences are silent and beyond understanding. It involves closing one's eyes to the physical world while opening the 'third eye,' and remaining silent to immerse oneself in the spiritual enigma both within and around us."

Mysticism represents a direct connection with an inspiring spiritual enigma. Direct contact with the mystery of our soul transcends our ordinary mind and fosters a sacred relationship within. However, the ego and soul do not reach equilibrium on their own. One will dominate the other until we live from the heart and cultivate our entire self.

Are you in touch with the spiritual mystery within and without? 

Mysticism represents a genuine spiritual encounter. Every religion is founded on firsthand spiritual experiences."

Serena Jade

Religion originates from the Latin word that means to reconnect us with our Divine source. Every religion encompasses an esoteric (hidden) aspect, which is the inner spiritual tradition of a specific faith. Individuals who pursue the esoteric journey are known as mystics. This journey is not about belief; it is about self-discovery, leading them to an awareness of their soul and the Transcendent Force of the Universe.

'To recognize the soul in another is the mystic's path.'

Soul Mates and Twin Flames are connections to the direct experience of your soul! 

Next time, you hear the word mysticism, will you think of a deep spiritual experience or a dark magical hocus pocus?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#80: Did Adam and Eve have great Self-Esteem?

Two people with great self-esteem, take responsibility for their actions and feelings. They have a sense of value and can manage their thoughts and feelings on their own. They don't have to blame or control someone else to feel ok.

Did Adam and Eve have this interaction?

God asked Adam: Who made you eat from the tree?

Adam answered: The woman you put here with me-she gave me some fruit from the tree.

God asked the woman: What is it that you have done?

The woman answered: The serpent gave me the fruit.

Clearly, Adam and Eve didn't have a high sense of value for themselves or each other!

Do you want this relationship to continue to be the role-model?

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