In an ordinary enchantment, we are attracted to someone for two reasons...
1.We are sexually attracted to their appearance.
2.The other person has the missing personality traits we need to be whole.
When we get involved in this relationship it feels wonderful in the beginning.Plato understood this phenomenon and said 2500 years ago, "Love is just a name we give to the desire and pursuit of wholeness."
We feel elated and euphoric however, this sense of enlightenment does not last for long.
Why do you think this is?
The other person is temporarily making you feel whole.But this is a false sense of wholeness.After the initial phase both people start to create power struggles with the missing trait; projected onto the other person.
Instead of marrying this person, we can be in a relationship with them...I call this a potential growth relationship because we can transform into a whole person!
"When we are whole, we can partner with our soul's mates." - Serena Jade
Are you ready to be in a personal growth relationship?
Serena Jade
Author/Speaker/Body, Mind, and Soul Consultant
1.We are sexually attracted to their appearance.
2.The other person has the missing personality traits we need to be whole.
When we get involved in this relationship it feels wonderful in the beginning.Plato understood this phenomenon and said 2500 years ago, "Love is just a name we give to the desire and pursuit of wholeness."
We feel elated and euphoric however, this sense of enlightenment does not last for long.
Why do you think this is?
The other person is temporarily making you feel whole.But this is a false sense of wholeness.After the initial phase both people start to create power struggles with the missing trait; projected onto the other person.
Instead of marrying this person, we can be in a relationship with them...I call this a potential growth relationship because we can transform into a whole person!
"When we are whole, we can partner with our soul's mates." - Serena Jade
Are you ready to be in a personal growth relationship?
Serena Jade
Author/Speaker/Body, Mind, and Soul Consultant
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