The Soul Mate Prep Blog#110: Are you familiar with the author Caroline Myss?

In Caroline Myss's book, Archetypes she says, Many spiritual seekers today think of the spiritual path as a route to health, happiness and security. However, these are not the core goals to an authentic spiritual path. A true spiritual path focuses you inward to discover interior qualities and confront your inner obstacles.

To follow a spiritual path is a lot harder then just wanting the basics of life. When most acquire health, happiness and the so-called security, we then want something more and usually it is peace.

However, peace comes when we uncover all our ego's obstacles and are in touch with the unseen force within a.k.a. the soul. Then we can live from our heart which constructs harmony between the ego and soul. We now have peace and are living authentically.  

Are you up for the challenge to follow an authentic spiritual path?

If not, soul mates are beyond your reach!

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#109: Do you think abundance is fulfillment?

If you observe, you will notice people think abundance is fulfillment. If one is realistic, one will know abundance only goes so far. There are other aspects to life, like the emotion of joy.

As a society, we associate abundance with joy. But when we get such and such, that happiness only lasts for a moment. Joy lasts for a long time.

Joy is the emotion of the heart. The heart connects our ego with our immortal soul. When we are in joy, we combine material abundance with the ethereal soul; a heaven on earth life!

Do you want to experience heaven on earth?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#108: Did you feel for the people in August: Osage County?

"What you have in you, will save you. If you don't have that within you, what you don't have in you, will destroy you."-Gospel of St. Thomas

August: Osage County was on Broadway a few years back and the film version was released a year and a half ago. It was labeled an American dark comedy drama.

I have to ask, who would label a dysfunctional family who are in so much pain a comedy?

The writer executed the pain but I feel there was no redeeming quality to the story. Even though, I would call the characters "too far gone," meaning it is too late for someone to uncover all the non-functional issues one has suffered. When someone is "too far gone" their denial is so strong, they are blinded by their pain and can't see they're the only one who can save them. However, the writer could have put the youngest in therapy to understand what she had inherited.

Can you feel for your own suffering?

"The “run for the carnations” brings home to me the origin of this divine flower. The first carnation appeared on Earth when Mary wept for the pain and suffering for Jesus. The deepest part of me is weeping for the misery and torture of Charismatic, and also for all the people who are in psychological and emotional agony. The crowd is feeling my grief and that of Charismatic. I know deep down all of us have the compassion to open our hearts and feel for ourselves and others."-Excerpt from Charismatic Connection

"A dysfunctional family is full of suffering and continues the cycle by reproducing and then expects that generation to heal them."-Serena Jade

Do you have the courage to heal your dysfunction you inherited?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#107: Did You See the movie, Eyes Wide Shut and the secret party of Hieros Gamos?

I never saw the film, Eyes Wide Shut before a few days ago. In the film, Tom Cruise and his then wife Nicole Kidman portray a married couple. Married for years and like 99.9% of the population, their relationship lacked intimacy. Tom Cruise's character took his wife for granted and thought his wife was never going to cheat on him.

One night, the wife tells him, she was inches away from the temptation. Tom Cruise's character couldn't handle hearing the truth and withdraws, thus goes wandering the streets of New York City...He coaxes an old friend to give him the password to a private party on Long Island, of all places. He stumbles into a secret sex ceremony, witnessing what was supposed to be Hieros Gamos.

I then remembered, Dan Brown wrote about the film in The Da Vinci Code. Dan Brown writes, Intercourse was the revered union of the two halves of the human spirit-male and female-through which you could find spiritual wholeness and communion with God.

Hieros Gamos (the holy union) and Tantra (expanding the mind) were not practiced in mainstream society. It was hidden from society because the sacred act is not about procreation or a lower form of sex.

 Dan Brown writes, "it is a deeply sacrosanct ceremony."

I would like to define Mysticism: Mysticism is derived from the Greek, meaning what is concealed. Mysticism is shutting the eyes, but opening the third eye, and shutting the mouth to experience the spiritual mystery within and without....Eyes Wide Shut.

“The ancients were not of mainstream thought and their social order as well as our society is ruled by the first three chakras. A true sexual spiritual encounter is never going to happen as long as we are ruled by security, exploitation of sex, money and power. Tantra is an ancient philosophy that means to expand the mind and the purpose is to see yourself and your partner as the God and Goddess united as one. This is a very intense sexual experience and both partners need to be on equal setting in order for this to take place.”-Excerpt from The Auto-Bond

Would you like to participate in sacred sex?

If so, a prerequisite is to know your own soul, as spiritual energy meets matter...Are you ready to experience the Transcendent?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#106: Are you the Co-Dependent Caretaker?

Last week I had a vivid dream; a man was drowning in a pool and another man was in the pool with him. I was standing outside the pool watching and I screamed," You can save him." But the other man didn't help and I didn't jump in, I watched the man go under.

This dream was very profound, I was conditioned at a young age to be the caretaker. The caretaker pays too much attention to other people's problems at the expense of their own well-being and needs!

The caretaker sets up a triangle known as the Karpman Drama. The caretaker is the rescuer but the person who their rescuing (victim) unconsciously resents the help, thus becomes the persecutor to the caretaker and now the caretaker becomes the victim! 

In my life, I now state, no one becomes more important than me! In the near future, I can meet my

mirror image and hold him in awe without possession!

Are you the Co-dependent Caretaker with your parents, siblings, friends, spouse or children?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#105: Are you the Selfish-One or the People-Pleaser?

In all relationships, there's one person trying to avoid separation or avoiding too much togetherness.

The person who is trying to avoid separateness had parents who withheld attention, affection and are the people-pleasers.

The person who is trying to avoid too much togetherness had parents who invaded their space and are the selfish-ones.

In the beginning of any relationship, both people are flowing and creating an unrealistic scenario and giving up all their time. Down the road, one person starts to pull away and the one who is trying to avoid separation experiences the loss of all togetherness. Fear creates the tension and the struggle for power and distance is upon us.

"When the power of love overcomes the love for power, the world (and you) will know peace."-Jimi Hendrix-I am inserting [you] because when we overcome the love for power, you will know peace!

How can we overcome this very common interplay? 

We need to become fully autonomous and own our independence and space. So, then we have the ideal trinity-My Space, Your Space and Our Space!

But, for this to work both people need to confront their fears of trying to avoid too much separateness or togetherness.

Are you ready to stop focusing on trying to prevent your partner, friend, child from abandoning you?


Are you ready to give up some of your time and embrace togetherness?

If we can accomplish this very difficult task; we can experience real intimacy regardless if you are soul mates or not. But, this authentic intimacy will be extremely intense with true soul mates!

Taken from the book, The Two Step: The Dance Toward Intimacy by Eileen McCann

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#104: Do you abuse your power or do you give it away?

In the book, The Heroine's Journey by Maureen Murdock she explains: In patriarchal relationships, there is always a dominate and submissive. The dominate person has to keep a one up position (abusing their power). 

"To own one's power is to have full autonomy."-Serena Jade

If one had parents who put shame and doubt on them, or they put shame and doubt on others, then one does not own one's autonomy. One will get into ALL relationships, where there is a dominate and submissive.

To have self-knowledge is to know which one you are; 
Are you the dominate or submissive?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#103: Soul Mates are "the buzz" but our emotions are in the Middle Ages...

Since the dawning of civilization, we have mated for survival! Like a woman I knew in New York, she admitted she picked a husband for "Practical Reasons." Her husband provided an abundance of money, expensive gifts, cars, two children and a gorgeous house in an affluent neighborhood on Long Island.

Her father instilled in her, she was worthy of abundance. However, her father failed to instill in her, she was worthy to be treated with respect and to have fulfillment with the abundance.

She has been married for 15 years and has accepted their lack of emotional closeness. She overlooks his coldness and love for power and control. She has repressed her sexual appetite, they sleep in separate rooms and he doesn't make love to her, they get laid!

She married for "Practical Reasons" NOT for an authentic connection.She is now divorced.

Fifty Shades phenomenon says it all as millions of women still want men for practical reasons!

Women and Men, let's get our emotions balanced, then a soul mate is within our reach. Are you willing to work for an authentic connection?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#102: Jupiter Ascending-a look at the Heroine's journey...

(Masculine) -Astronomy tells us Jupiter is the largest planet in our solar system. (Feminine)- Astrology tells us Jupiter is about expansion and abundance.

Jupiter Ascending is a new film written and directed by the Wachowski siblings. Jupiter Jones is Cinderella-like. Her father was killed before she was born and now Jupiter and her mother are cleaning ladies. But, Jupiter is a reincarnated Queen. Can she reclaim her throne?

The Wachowski siblings were going for the hero's journey with Jupiter. The hero's journey has been told throughout history that the hero's father is absent from the hero's life. The same sex parent has the most influence in a child's life.

So, in the heroine's journey, the mother figure is the most important. However, there is not that much written about the heroine's journey. All we have are tales of Cinderella, Snow White and they are dealing with stepmothers and sisters. As a society, we don't want to accept there are mothers and sisters who are just as cruel. In real life, the women who endure such cruelty become the caretakers for their elderly parents and who in society have been labeled; Old Maids. But, we are living in the twenty-first century and the caretakers can overcome their fate by an enormous amount of self-knowledge! Then they can use their positive father role model and be effective in the world...the servant becomes the heroine!

Of course, this process takes years of uncovering shame and doubt. The "Good Person" becomes a whole person. They are free from outside influence.

With Jupiter ascending, we don't witness Jupiter asserting her influence. But, nonetheless, I loved the film and I especially loved the ending.

Will you see Jupiter Ascending?

Do you think you can transcend your shame and doubt?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#101: Do you revere your fellow human?

Ananda Spa, India

 

When I was at Ananda Spa, I loved the gesture of reverence called Anjali mudra. When you walked passed another human you were expected to acknowledge the person.

 

With your hands pressed together and palms touching, it is known that you bow to the Divine in the other.

 

The west is missing this very basic but very profound recognition of the other. However, true soul mates/twin flames naturally "see" the Divine spark!

 

When you walk pass your fellow human, can you acknowledge the person and the Divine energy in them?

 

 

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#100: Do you consider yourself Spiritual?

"The key to growth is the introduction of higher dimensions of consciousness into our awareness."- Lao Tzu

Lao Tzu the founder of Taoism was very wise, but I am going to insert an important word-spiritual.

Spiritual growth is the introduction of higher consciousness. Spiritual growth is NOT the same as personal growth. Personal growth relates to our ego and spiritual growth relates to our soul.

If you say you are spiritual, are you in touch with your sixth sense?

"When we live from the heart, we balance our ego and soul in the here and now."-Serena Jade

Authentic soul mates/twin flames wake up and realize the higher dimensions in the other-true Soul Mates/Twin Flames!

Are you authentically spiritual?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#99: Is it lust or love?

TV personality, Shaun Robinson was interviewing Bobby Brown about his relationship with Whitney Houston the other day. She asked him, "Was it lust at first sight or love at first sight?"

Bobby Brown responds, "Oh that is deep."

I laughed out loud because with all due respect to my fellow humans, it is usually lust at first sight!

If you find my observation offensive-Can you differentiate lust from love?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#98: Do you ponder the deep questions?

Artist Andy Lakey drew this angel for me, he sensed I had a big heart and lots of energy!


Do you think about why you are here on earth? Is it just to live, beget the next generation, have fun and die?

What happens when your body turns to stone and perishes?

Do you have faith? When most people say they have faith, it usually implies an outside force. I want you to think of an inside force...Do you have faith that an inside force survives death?

Can you live life by having faith in this inside force?

"True spirituality is knowing and trusting the intangible force within. A tremendous amount of faith in this inside force, will bring heaven to you in the here and now."-Serena Jade

Do you have complete trust in the intangible force within you?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#97: What is Self-Knowledge?

The other day, a friend of mine said, "It is easier to see other people's lives and not your own."

Ancient Greek Wisdom; Know Thyself!

Self-Knowledge is about being disciplined and reflective to understand and then transform one's psychological unhealthy identity. When one can acquire inner psychological wisdom, one can then start to understand one's spiritual nature. But, it takes discipline to want to be a better person and have healthy relationships, first to the self and then to others!

"To seek myself and know who I was and who in what manner I now am, that I may again become that which I was."- Gnostic-wisdom

Do you want to be a better person or do you think the other person has the problem?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#96: The writers of the TV show Blue Bloods are delusional...

In every episode of Blue Bloods, the family has a Sunday ritual meal together. I was watching a rerun the other day and one of the characters at the dinner table said, "People have two lives, one they are born into and the one they choose."

What were the writers thinking of when they wrote that line, I wonder?

Here we have a show about a follow along family of policemen. People choose a profession but to choose a life different from what one was born into is another story!

Think about your family's heritage: Do you adhere to your ancestor's place of origin?

Are you following your family's customs and beliefs?

Do you think you can separate from your family, when they put shame and guilt onto you, not to be separate from them?

If you answered "Yes" to the first two and "No" to the last question, you are living one life. Would you like to live two lives?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#95: Is your Heart truly open for Love?

The Heart's Awakening by William Bouguereau


"Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."-Rumi
 
FROM THE YEAR 2007-"The tendency to think about the other person’s feelings, more than mine is alive within me. That is the karma between us; I disregard myself but I am dependent on the relationship. He has control and sees me as an extension not as a separate person. He withdraws as the reaction, the more he withdraws I become frustrated and become the victim to my caretaker syndrome. My fear is abandonment but I abandon myself and I feel responsible for the other. The more I feel responsible, the more he withdraws and I feel abandoned even more.

Karma is a Sanskrit word meaning action = reaction. I am mimicking with James, my relationship with my mother.
I have been taught to disregard myself and think about my mother and her needs. But, underneath the façade, I am dependent on the relationship.
I have to become safe and secure and stop my people pleasing, not an easy task. 
Once I transform, I will no longer be its victim.
I 

will be responsible to me and to another, not for another.  

I will be autonomous and can be caring-detached and then I will move out of the karmic situation and move on to my deepest most-profound eternal love.

When this is going to happen? I do not know.

EXCERPT FROM

The Auto-Bond: A Personal Growth Relationship

Best-selling author John Bradshaw said, "Codependency/dependency is the root of addiction."

"When our heart is ready for love - we have transcended our

Co-Dependent and Dependent unhealthy defense mechanism."-

Serena Jade

Are you ready to open your heart?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#94: The Ten Commandments vs.Exodus:Gods and Kings...

 
 

First, I have to say Moses is a very important figure in my life. I converted to Judaism because I feel a deep connection with Moses. If you don't know, Moses is a very important and central figure in Judaism. The  Torah aka The Old Testament is the five books of Moses.

For me, The Ten Commandments is a classic. If you are aware, Cecil B. DeMille depicts Moses and his transformation into a leader.

Even though, I loved the special effects in Exodus and how Ridley Scott portrayed the plagues and the Red Sea, Exodus did not inspire me. The film didn't depict Moses's calling and I didn't like the God representation as a boy. In The Ten Commandments, God was a spirit within the hearts and minds of every being.

Moses is a hero figure, he represents someone who heeded the call and followed his destiny.

Do you hear the call to your destiny? If so, are you following the call?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#93: Are you treating your body like a temple?

Love Your Body

Your body should be treated like a temple. When your emotions are working on the same team as your mind, you will want to be a good parent for your body. 

Working out consistently and eating healthy are paramount to keeping your body in top form. When our emotions of guilt and shame control us, we are not the best advocate for our body. Get in touch with your guilt and shame to create a body that you will love.

Are you ready to love your body?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#92: Do you feel Significant?

The moment I took my first breath, my mother deemed worthy, I was insignificant. From that moment on, my ego would develop and I would reject my unacceptable trait; I am Significant.

When we reject our unacceptable traits, we project them. We see someone else with the traits we would like to acquire and this usually comes in the form of envy.

However, the only way we can acquire the unacceptable traits is by accepting them and then identify with the trait. This is not easy because our ego wants safety at all costs and to be identified with the trait that was unacceptable is very difficult. However, the task is not impossible but the trick is instead of being envious, be conscious of what we are projecting.

Are you projecting your Significance or owning it?

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The Soul Mate Prep Blog#91:Are you skeptical about Soul Mates?

Envision the beauty that would come from a true, pure, and authentic spiritual connection with another soul...

Three Soul Mates had a past life love of horses and fox hunting in Yorkshire, England, and Reincarnated in the south shore of Long Island, New York for their love of horses and racing ...

Charismatic Connection is inspired by the amazing true story of a champion jockey and an authentic soul mate - for years, jockey Chris Antley and Serena Jade lock eyes, psychically connect but are kept apart. Years later, their psychic gift predicts Chris Antley's win in the Kentucky Derby.

"I am excited; I have a shot, even if it is a long shot, to win the Kentucky Derby again. I call Ron, and I tell him to speak to Wayne and tell him we are riding Charismatic in the Kentucky Derby. I notice the first six letters of Charismatic rearranged could spell Chris A. I tell Ron a couple of days later I know who is going to win the Derby. 

Ron asks, “Who is it?”

 Chris Antley in his own words- Chris says, “I had a night vision: we won.”

Ron didn’t appreciate this intuitive wisdom, and says, “You shouldn’t tell anyone—they might think you’re crazy." Charismatic is such a long shot that Ron thinks it would take divine intervention for him to cross the wire first."-Excerpt from Charismatic Connection.

 

[Serena Jade] has not watched a Derby since 1995, and I don't have a conscious clue why I want to watch the Derby this year. I just feel I should view the race today...

Charismatic and Chris Antley winning the Kentucky Derby!

Does this fated event finally bring them together? 

Charismatic Connection is an incredible story, pick up a copy today at www.amazon.com/author/serenajade 

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